Thursday, March 6, 2008 

Seal Granite Countertops To Prolong Their Life

Granite is a very popular material that is used for kitchen and bathroom countertops all over the country, and even around the world. Their popularity is largely due to the natural hardness and resilience of the stone.

Because of these remarkable characteristics, granite countertops are the top choice of today's homeowner. But even though granite seems to be impregnable, it is still a stone, and all stones have a natural absorbent quality. This is why it is necessary to seal granite countertops to prevent chemicals or other damaging substances to seep through the stone and cause staining and discoloration.

If you have just bought a granite countertop for your kitchen or bathroom, you probably wouldnt have to worry about sealing it until after several months. Most countertop dealers sell granite countertops that have already been sealed, but you can ask the dealer just to be sure.

The general rule is that you have to seal granite countertops twice a year. But the actual frequency depends on where your granite countertops are located and how much they are used. For more frequently used surfaces, you must seal granite countertops as often as every 4 months. If they are in a place that is not used very often, for example, the bathroom in the guesthouse, then it is enough to seal granite countertops once a year.

It is really not that difficult to seal granite countertops. Oftentimes, home owners do this task by themselves, unless they are probably too busy, in which case they will hire people who seal granite countertops to do the job.

Some people seal granite countertops using special granite sealants. But if you are on a tight budget, you can always use car wax. They are less expensive, and applying them will be just like applying wax on your car's exterior.

Once you seal your granite countertops, it is important to practice the right daily cleaning practices to promote their durability. Take note that anything acidic may damage the sealant. It doesnt matter if the acid comes from chemical cleaners, or food such as orange juice or coffee. Acid in any form can cause the sealant to wear away, therefore, the granite will be exposed to possible staining and discoloration.

Because of this, you must take care to choose a non-acidic cleaner to use on your granite countertops. Also, be vigilant with regard to spills on the surface. Mop or wipe them right away to avoid aggravating the problem.

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Secret of Sensual Love Making: The 4 Big Basics

The secret of sensual love making lies in the application of these four simple yet incredibly effective techniques. Forget about magic potions or supposed secret techniques, it always comes down to taking the simple, and mastering it.

1. Foreplay. Greatly overlooked in many promised secret of sensual love making manuals, including or not including foreplay can make or break a love making session. When included it can raise arousal and excitement, hence bringing even the most standard love making session to incredible heights.

2. Touch. Another greatly overlooked aspect to the secret of sensual love making is the simple yet effective act of touch. Touch and tenderness go hand and hand. Hence the more you touch, the more tender you become. Touch should be applied all over the body, though not to the point of excessive groping; rather there are areas one should concentrate on specifically which include the face (specifically the cheeks), the back of neck and shoulders, above the knees, the feet, and there are other "touch places" which induce elements of both tenderness and eroticism which one can uncover in a good manual focusing on naturally erotic spots.

3. Tempo and speed. This is very important and serves as a big secret of sensual love making due to the fact that it targets the individual person and their individual preferences. Some enjoy more of a slow rhythm while others prefer a more steady and fast pace. You are literally uncovering a secret of sensual love making by discovering your partners specific preference for tempo.

4. Words. Once again, a major overlooked element in a secret of sensual love making. Words are powerful and when they convey meaning that boosts your partners arousal and state of mind, then forget about it. You've uncovered a major secret of sensual love making when you find a flavor for what your partner likes to hear. One of the major complaints partners have is never "hearing" how beautiful or special they are. Well if you drop these bombs during love making then you've just increased the sensual environment ten fold.

The secret of sensual love making does not require any magic routines yet should only be concerned with the proven routines that do in fact work. The secret is that few are willing to concentrate, master, and combine the four elements above that make up the core of any powerful love making session.

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Unique Gifts Featuring Your Photos

Gifts for children are easy, since most children do not want a unique gift. We know they will be happier with gifts that are widely advertised on TV or just like their friends have. Unique gifts are not important to children. Sometime in the years that follow, it seems that both giver and recipient develop the idea that a gift's uniqueness is important. To some, more important than to others.

Unique gifts using photographs are especially appealing. Photographs make the gifts one-of-a-kind, as well as personal. Few people have access to the same photos, and even if they do, the possibility of them matching photo to gift is slight. But does the use of a photo make the object a unique gift?

Let's say you have a great photo of your sister's children. You go to an online website that lets you upload that image and have it imprinted on a mug, mouse pad, tee-shirt, tote bag, or coaster. That is a unique gift, in that it is personal. It is not a unique gift without the photo, however.

Unique gifts using photographs require either that the gift be unique, or that the addition of a photo be unique to that type of item. In other words, would it be surprising to see a personal photograph in that setting?

Ideas for Unique Gifts Using Photographs

You will find that simply reading a few ideas for unique gifts using photographs will spur your thinking on the subject. These 7 may get creative juices flowing.

1. Fish Lover: If the recipient loves diving, snorkeling reefs, or just watching fish in a tank, you can give a unique gift featuring your photo. Purchase a small wall aquarium. Enlarge one or more photographs of the recipient in the water, and mount behind the aquarium so they show through the glass. Or scan your photo and "PhotoShop" it into an underwater scene. You can do the same with a table aquarium. Add water and fish for unique gifts using photographs.

2. Office Worker: Male or female who spends most of everyday at a desk would appreciate a paperweight. Websites that offer engraved keepsakes will engrave your photo inside a crystal paperweight. Some will also add a brief message inside the paperweight. Or have your photo laser engraved in a crystal "iceberg" that sites atop a black stand. Some places will laser engrave on black marble, too. These are unique gifts using photographs.

3. Romantic: Photo trays can be purchased or homemade. They are basically deep picture frames with velveteen covered backgrounds and glass. Slip photos between the glass and the velveteen background, and use as a tray for cosmetics or serving tea. If you yourself craft these unique gifts using photographs, you may want to add cork to the bottom to protect tables. A refinished antique picture frame, carved with flowers, would be romantic.

4. Child: Room plates on their doors will tell everyone whose bedroom it is. When those room plates contain photos, people will see whose room it is. Room plates are just under 3" x 4" and come in two pieces. Crop your photos to fit, snap the pieces together and you have a unique gift for any child. Moms appreciate these, too

5. Traveler: You may not want a personal photo on a luggage tag or key ring, but a photo of a favorite pet or location would be appreciated and would help a traveler quickly identify his or her luggage. These also can be DIY, snapping an appropriately trimmed photo into the tag. A unique gift for a birthday, Christmas, or other occasion.

6. Photography Buff: Gift baskets are plentiful online, but they can become unique gifts using photographs. Find an online shop that offers customization of gift baskets baskets your way - or try a DIY gift basket. Think of things a digital photographer would appreciate. Include a small photo album, photo paper for printing, photo ink cartridge(s), camera batteries, a camera memory card, and a digital picture frame. Fill the frame with a photo that is sure to please, and place it in the front of the basket for a unique gift.

7. Home Decor: Unique gifts using photographs can play a part in home decor, too. These personal creations can be ordered online using your photographs: pillows, quilts, afghans, handbags. You can even have photographs placed on small footballs, baseballs, or soccer balls and use them as home decor.

Helpful Tip

When creating unique gifts using photographs, choose the photographs carefully. A snapshot that is funny today might not seem as funny by the next birthday. A photo that shows the recipient in an embarrassing situation may not be appreciated. A unique gift is good. A unique gift that continues to be appreciated through the years is better.

2007, Anna Hart. Anna Hart invites you to read more of her articles about unique gifts at http://www.distinctivegiftsandcards.com. Anna regularly posts additional information on that site about other gifts and cards. If you would like to find unique gifts of distinctive home decor, visit Anna now.



 

The Moon In My Rearview Mirror

My beloved grandmother was content to sit on a porch for hours engaged in storytelling, while I struggled to remain still long enough to listen. Deeply aware of the special gift of her healthy and vibrant presence in my life, I promised myself to spend more time with her, listen more attentively, and put my own agenda aside in order to enjoy her company. Caught up in the rhythm of daily life and the intricacies of my youthful self-absorption, romantic woes, building a business and searching for Mr. Right, the years flew by and grandmas body began to break down. I now find myself missing her hugs, her unconditional adoration and the sound of her laughter with a longing that stings my soul.

During our weekly drives together to the traditional Sunday family suppers at my mothers home, grandma would delight in the details of my private life. Darling, what ever happened to that nice fellah you were dating she would ask with eager anticipation, and I would brush aside her heartfelt question, feeling like a fly under a microscope and yearning to be alone with my thoughts. I knew she could see straight through my eyes into the depths of my soul, and this feeling of transparency filled me with the urge to run and hide from her knowing glance.

One hot sunny day in mid-summer several years before she died, I decided to surprise grandma with an impromptu afternoon visit. I found her sitting at a public swimming pool next door to her apartment building trying to ease her loneliness by watching the children swim and play. In that rare moment of connection I was overcome with feelings of love and empathy for her. I now ask myself, why was it so difficult for me to sit still with her, to truly listen, to cast aside my own schedule and quiet my mind in order to enjoy those precious moments together?

My mother fought her own demons in the final years of caring for grandma. Can you believe I drove to 10 different stores trying to find the her the right kinds of onions and pantyhose! My mother would moan to me during one of our many gripe sessions involving grandmas highly specific requests. Well at least you didnt have to spend 45 minutes at the supermarket while she examined every single potato, I would reply with a snicker. Usually these conversations ended with laughter, but beneath the lighthearted banter was a shared understanding that grandma would not be with us forever.

What are the deepest voices of a womans soul, and why is it so difficult for us to stop the noise for long enough to listen? As I sit on my back porch looking out over the marsh on this balmy morning in early May, I am finally allowing myself to listen to the faintest whispers of my own soul. Several years ago, after a long-term relationship and months spent planning the wedding of my dreams, I experienced a broken engagement. I allowed myself to break open to the pain, and entered into a long period of spiritual stagnation. I questioned my work, relationships, my own self and the life choices I had made. Derailed and fragmented as my life veered off course, I considered a geographic relocation and entered into a series of short-term meaningless relationships that left me feeling lonely and disillusioned.

As a psychologist I enjoy witnessing young womens lives evolve and transform. There was one young woman in my practice who had a particularly profound impact on me. During the course of my own grief and despair, I watched her life take shape as she healed deep childhood wounds, changed career paths, blossomed in her marriage and experienced the joys of pregnancy and parenting for the first time. In the course of our work together, I became aware of a mounting ache inside my own heart. Bearing witness as she busted through her wall of fear in order to align with her soul, I recognized my own longing to do the same.

Just last week, I dared myself to step into my wedding gown for the first time since the broken engagement. As I stood on the platform in the bridal shop and gazed at my reflection in the full-length mirror, I recalled my mother sitting in a chair several years prior, watching as I stood in the exact spot for the second fitting of my gown. I remembered with sadness the deep fear and concern in her eyes, sensing my relationship with my fianc was in trouble and my hopes and dreams were about to come crashing down around me. In my reflection I saw myself as a slightly older version of the bride-to-be from several years ago. In my own eyes I saw loss and despair, pain and regret, yearning and aching, renewal and hope. In this moment I felt more alive than I had in years. Finally aware of my ability to heal and my endless reservoir of hope, faith and love, I found my mother not in the chair behind me but inside myself. As the faintest of whispers echoed from deep within my soul, this time I remained still long enough to listen. The whispers became more audible as they told me to stop running, embrace stillness, release fear and allow the love back in.

As a small child I marveled at how the moon would follow the car, always appearing directly overhead. The moon wears a seatbelt, my grandfather explained, and I would try to visualize the glowing sphere fastened securely into a car seat, riding along a parallel interstate in the sky. My grandfather was a creative and playful man who understood the magic of a childs perspective. Perhaps the pain we all experience stems from faulty perspective brought on by a sense of misalignment, or alienation from the voices of our own soul. In order to act genuinely and authentically from or deepest core, we must allow ourselves to remain still for long enough to hear the answers that already lie within us.

The child in my heart reminds me that stars in the night sky are diamonds, moons can wear seatbelts and relationships can be reborn. As I am becoming more mindful in the present and releasing my ties to the past and the future, I find myself finally ready to live deeply and wholeheartedly and claim the joy and fulfillment my grandmother left behind. Recently as I was driving alone late at night, I caught the reflection of a full moon in my rearview mirror. Memories of my grandfather flooded my mind, and I swear, the moon followed me all the way home.

Risa Mason is a licensed clinical psychologist in private practice in Charleston, S.C. She specializes in coaching women towards inner peace and fulfillment by teaching them how to live, dream and thrive. You may contact her for individual or group coaching, or public speaking engagements at 843-769-0444.



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